Bouquet & Garter Toss traditions
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Garter Toss traditions at Schuylkill County Wedding Receptions
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The tradition of the wedding garter is dates back to France of the 14th century. In the USA, the bride wears two garters; one as a keepsake garter and the other for the throw away.
Both garters are worn on the right leg just above the knee.
the bride first throws her bouquet to the single women.prior to the groom removal of the garter,
Girls under 16 years of age can be denied the right to participate or if they participate and catch the garter then the Dj will repeat it announcing that this was a practice run and either remove the the children or throw it over their heads.
The groom removes the throw garter from the brides leg,starting with his head under the Brides wedding dress and then removes it with his teeth , nowadays it is more common with his hands. While the bride is sitting in a chair.
After the garter is removed, he then throws it to the single male guests. The male guest then takes the garter and places it on the leg of the single female guest who has caught the bouquet.
Those that catch either item are said to be the next to marry. In some instances, it is said that they will marry each other.
The keepsake garter is removed later in private during the honeymoon night.
Numerous wedding garter traditions have been obtained over the years that still seem to become rules of etiquette today. Take a look at a few that are still popular and some that have long since been forgotten.
The garter tradition goes back to the 14th century. In parts of Western Europe the guests of the bride and groom believed having a piece of the bride's clothing was thought to bring good luck. They would actually destroy the brides dress by ripping off pieces of fabric. Obviously, this tradition did not sit well with the bride, so she began throwing various items to the guests - the garter being one of them. It became customary for the bride to toss the garter to the men. But this also caused a great problem for the bride….sometimes the men would get drunk, become impatient and try to remove the garter ahead of time. Therefore, the custom derived at having the groom remove and toss the garter to the men. With this change, the bride began to toss the bridal boutique to the unwed girls who were eligible for marriage.
Another interesting custom dating back to the ancient times where the wedding garter represented the virginal girdle. When the groom removed the garter from the bride, this represented the bride's relinquishment of her virginity.
Another European custom was while the bride and groom were in their bridal room, the wedding guests would sneak into the room picking up discarded stockings and throwing them at the couple. Which ever person threw a stocking that hung on the bride or groom's nose, would be the next to marry.